<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss version="2.0"><channel><title>Jakob Flingelli</title><description>Essays and field notes by Jakob Flingelli.</description><link>https://www.flingelli.com</link><language>en</language><item><title>i quit</title><link>https://www.flingelli.com/articles/i-quit</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://www.flingelli.com/articles/i-quit</guid><description>I gave notice in August and slept very well. In October we leave Merano with three kids and a shipping container. Portugal first, then the unknown.</description><pubDate>Sun, 06 Sep 2026 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title>40 things I’ve come to think are true</title><link>https://www.flingelli.com/articles/40-things-ive-come-to-think-are-true</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://www.flingelli.com/articles/40-things-ive-come-to-think-are-true</guid><description>Forty personal observations on time, family, work, travel, design, coffee, memory, and choosing a life that feels long when you look back.</description><pubDate>Sun, 12 Jul 2026 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title>The problem with my perfectly reasonable life</title><link>https://www.flingelli.com/articles/the-problem-with-a-perfectly-reasonable-life</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://www.flingelli.com/articles/the-problem-with-a-perfectly-reasonable-life</guid><description>A personal essay on The Pathless Path, family timing, work, enough, and the strange problem of living a perfectly reasonable life that has started to feel too small.</description><pubDate>Sun, 31 May 2026 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title>Taiwan &amp; Taipei — Everything I Wish I&apos;d Known Before Going</title><link>https://www.flingelli.com/articles/taiwan-amp-taipei-everything-i-wish-id-known-before-going</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://www.flingelli.com/articles/taiwan-amp-taipei-everything-i-wish-id-known-before-going</guid><description>In February 2026, Sina and I spent 8 days in Taiwan — six days in Taipei, a rental car to the east coast, Hualien, Jiufen, and back again. Here&apos;s everything we wish we&apos;d known before going: 10 things that surprised us, our rough itinerary, and the full list of hotels, night markets, bars, coffee shops, and ceramics worth your time.</description><pubDate>Sun, 01 Mar 2026 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title>How to Read a City (Without a Map)</title><link>https://www.flingelli.com/articles/how-to-read-a-city-without-a-map</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://www.flingelli.com/articles/how-to-read-a-city-without-a-map</guid><description>Most of us navigate cities by following a blue dot on a screen, rarely looking up at the world we’re moving through. But every city has its own internal logic—a language of architecture, street widths, and human flow that tells you exactly where you are.</description><pubDate>Sun, 22 Feb 2026 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title>Babylonstoren — the most impressive farm-stay ever</title><link>https://www.flingelli.com/articles/babylonstoren-the-most-impressive-farm-stay-ever</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://www.flingelli.com/articles/babylonstoren-the-most-impressive-farm-stay-ever</guid><description>Babylonstoren review: a working farm stay—gardens you can taste, buffalo-milk dairy, breakfast to remember, bikes and light workshops, and genuinely warm staff.</description><pubDate>Sun, 09 Nov 2025 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title>Ten Days in South Africa — a route with room for surprise</title><link>https://www.flingelli.com/articles/ten-days-in-south-africa-a-route-with-room-for-surprise</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://www.flingelli.com/articles/ten-days-in-south-africa-a-route-with-room-for-surprise</guid><description>Ten days across the Cape with built-in uncertainty: Kommetjie, Stellenbosch, Kogelberg, whales from bed in Hermanus, Kloof Street finds—route notes + a copy-ready list.</description><pubDate>Sun, 26 Oct 2025 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title>Stay on the f*cking Bus</title><link>https://www.flingelli.com/articles/stay-on-the-fcking-bus</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://www.flingelli.com/articles/stay-on-the-fcking-bus</guid><description>Photographer Arno Rafael Minkkinen’s “Helsinki Bus Station Theory” has aged beautifully over two decades. Here’s how his advice — stay on the bus — resonates with me as a generalist in architecture, interiors, marketing, and writing, and why I believe taste is the route worth riding.</description><pubDate>Sun, 21 Sep 2025 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title>I almost bought an old cinema last week</title><link>https://www.flingelli.com/articles/i-almost-bought-an-old-cinema-last-week</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://www.flingelli.com/articles/i-almost-bought-an-old-cinema-last-week</guid><description>An old cinema in Merano, 250 sqm of potential, and one big decision: why saying no can be as creative as saying yes.</description><pubDate>Mon, 01 Sep 2025 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title>The Hide-And-Seek-Test for Great Design</title><link>https://www.flingelli.com/articles/the-kid-test-for-great-design</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://www.flingelli.com/articles/the-kid-test-for-great-design</guid><description>Discover the “Hide-and-Seek-Test” for great design: spaces that spark curiosity, invite exploration, and turn ordinary rooms into unforgettable experiences.</description><pubDate>Mon, 11 Aug 2025 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title>The Year I Stopped Playing Small</title><link>https://www.flingelli.com/articles/the-year-i-stopped-shrinking</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://www.flingelli.com/articles/the-year-i-stopped-shrinking</guid><description>A personal reflection on career, creativity, and quiet growth. Eight lessons on taste, energy, and designing a life that fits better—without a big leap.</description><pubDate>Sun, 13 Jul 2025 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title>Why We Left Berlin for the Mountains (and What Beauty Has to Do with It)</title><link>https://www.flingelli.com/articles/why-we-left-berlin-for-the-mountains-and-what-beauty-has-to-do-with-it</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://www.flingelli.com/articles/why-we-left-berlin-for-the-mountains-and-what-beauty-has-to-do-with-it</guid><description>From Berlin techno to alpine silence: How one hike reminded me why we moved to South Tyrol—and why beauty might be more essential than we think.</description><pubDate>Sun, 22 Jun 2025 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title>Spring in June: Why Life Works Better in Seasons</title><link>https://www.flingelli.com/articles/spring-in-june-why-life-works-better-in-seasons</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://www.flingelli.com/articles/spring-in-june-why-life-works-better-in-seasons</guid><description>We’re not machines on a schedule — we’re fields, forests, and farms. Here’s why thinking in seasons might be the sanest way to approach modern work and creativity.</description><pubDate>Sun, 15 Jun 2025 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title>Postcards from Aotearoa (or: how we flew 30 hours to watch a penguin take a nap)</title><link>https://www.flingelli.com/articles/postcards-from-aotearoa-or-how-we-flew-30-hours-to-watch-a-penguin-take-a-nap</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://www.flingelli.com/articles/postcards-from-aotearoa-or-how-we-flew-30-hours-to-watch-a-penguin-take-a-nap</guid><description>We flew 30 hours to New Zealand with no plan, a film camera, and low expectations. What we found: absurd wildlife, radical kindness, and time moving differently.</description><pubDate>Sun, 23 Mar 2025 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title>Why Some Changes Need Drama, Not Discipline</title><link>https://www.flingelli.com/articles/why-some-changes-need-drama-not-discipline</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://www.flingelli.com/articles/why-some-changes-need-drama-not-discipline</guid><description>I’m testing life without unnecessary spending for 90 days. Here’s why I think extreme, time-bound change can beat slow habits — at least sometimes.</description><pubDate>Sat, 15 Mar 2025 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title>10 Places &amp; Brands Worth Checking Out in New Zealand</title><link>https://www.flingelli.com/articles/10-places-amp-brands-worth-checking-out-in-new-zealand</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://www.flingelli.com/articles/10-places-amp-brands-worth-checking-out-in-new-zealand</guid><pubDate>Sun, 02 Mar 2025 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title>How to Move Forward When Nothing Feels Certain</title><link>https://www.flingelli.com/articles/how-to-move-forward-when-nothing-feels-certain</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://www.flingelli.com/articles/how-to-move-forward-when-nothing-feels-certain</guid><description>We treat uncertainty like a bug in the system. But it’s the starting point. A reflection on making bold moves—even when you don’t feel ready.</description><pubDate>Fri, 28 Feb 2025 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title>Forget Ladders. Build a Playground.</title><link>https://www.flingelli.com/articles/forget-ladders-build-a-playground</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://www.flingelli.com/articles/forget-ladders-build-a-playground</guid><description>Tired of choosing one path? Try a portfolio career: a mix of projects, income streams, and creative experiments that actually fit your life.</description><pubDate>Tue, 11 Feb 2025 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title>OKAYBETA #9 | Friends News: AI wrote this newsletter</title><link>https://www.flingelli.com/articles/okaybeta-9-friends-news-ai-wrote-this-newsletter</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://www.flingelli.com/articles/okaybeta-9-friends-news-ai-wrote-this-newsletter</guid><pubDate>Wed, 30 Nov 2022 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title>OKAYBETA #8 | Friends News: October 2022</title><link>https://www.flingelli.com/articles/okaybeta-8-october-2022</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://www.flingelli.com/articles/okaybeta-8-october-2022</guid><pubDate>Mon, 31 Oct 2022 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title>Why the crypto crash saved me hours each week</title><link>https://www.flingelli.com/articles/why-the-crypto-crash-saved-me-hours-each-week</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://www.flingelli.com/articles/why-the-crypto-crash-saved-me-hours-each-week</guid><pubDate>Fri, 30 Sep 2022 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title>The most expensive pair of sneakers I ever bought</title><link>https://www.flingelli.com/articles/the-most-expensive-pair-of-sneakers-i-ever-bought</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://www.flingelli.com/articles/the-most-expensive-pair-of-sneakers-i-ever-bought</guid><pubDate>Sun, 24 Apr 2022 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title>Newsletter 🖤</title><link>https://www.flingelli.com/articles/newsletter</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://www.flingelli.com/articles/newsletter</guid><pubDate>Thu, 15 Apr 2021 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title>DPS Hiking Trip Day 2</title><link>https://www.flingelli.com/articles/dps-hiking-trip-day-2</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://www.flingelli.com/articles/dps-hiking-trip-day-2</guid><pubDate>Thu, 10 May 2018 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title>Digital Product School Hiking Trip</title><link>https://www.flingelli.com/articles/digital-product-school-hiking-trip</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://www.flingelli.com/articles/digital-product-school-hiking-trip</guid><pubDate>Wed, 02 May 2018 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title>Mensch, Smart City!</title><link>https://www.flingelli.com/articles/beyond-smart-cities</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://www.flingelli.com/articles/beyond-smart-cities</guid><description>Digitalisierung ist ein Schlüssel für die lebenswerte Stadt von morgen, darf aber kein Selbstzweck sein. Auch Smart Cities drehen sich um Menschen - und die müssen sich beteiligen.</description><pubDate>Mon, 30 Apr 2018 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate></item></channel></rss>